The Truth Behind Break-Ups
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Do you ever ask yourself the question? Why do women break up with men? Time and time again you'll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you'll wonder why, because he treated her great and really seemed to worship her.
Have you been told that "nice guys finish last"? Well, that statement is partially true. Many women aren't as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. If you appear to be madly in love with her, she will think you have some sort of problem.
Is it that way with all women? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll get out of the relationship. But there are a lot of women who tend to use the "grass is always greener" thought process. The best guy for them is the one just around a corner.
How should you respond when a woman unexpectedly calls off the relationship? You will not immediately contact her. It's obvious she didn't appreciate what she had at the time, so give her the opportunity to realize what she has lost.
Get back to your life quickly, don't let the devastation grow. Get out of the house, see your friends, and its okay to start dating again. Dating can be a beneficial way to find a woman with the confidence to appreciate who you are.
What you really need to ask yourself is whether you want to be involved on that level with a person who is so insecure. Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you think she's the perfect one for you, give her the time and space to catch up. It is never impossible to mend a relationship, as long as the trust remains.
If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.
In short, she needs to prove herself as an appropriate girlfriend or lover. Let HER be the one doing the chasing, not the opposite. If you finally catch her, be mysterious. Keep in mind, she may be uncertain how to respond to a decent guy, so don't overwhelm her.
Am I telling you to treat her inappropriately? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. These are the steps to save your relationship, if that is what you are really looking for.
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